My thoughts on Love Relationships in this blog..Call it a Love Radio Blog if you want..: March 2006

Saturday, March 04, 2006

Why that??

Why give that to your other half??

Don't get what I mean? Well,many couples buying presents for one another is mostly based on the emotional or physical level of their thriving relationships. In the name of fun probably,they tend to give each other more sexually related gifts from sexy lingerie to a flavoured condom. Lingerie for the girl to don and feel sexy or as eye candy for the guy? I guess it works both ways.

In this modern age, many young couples are pretty much at ease with their own sexuality which could potentially explain the steady rise in pre marital sex among youngsters. The culture within Singapore has slowly started to open up in terms of speaking and behaving in more sexually suggestive manners. It is no longer a taboo topic, rather it has been widely embraced among the modern generation. Save for that few traditional family which still stick to the "No talking allowed when eating, no drinking of water before water etc." traditions.

Have you encountered a similar situation or mindset when you gave a certain gift or said something in a certain way simply because you had a hidden agenda or rather, a different intention beyond what's perceived? Or maybe simply just engaging in the common saying of killing 2 birds with one stone. I personally feel that the attraction between couples must be strongly balanced between physical attraction and emotional attraction. Too much of either one can be overbearing and dulls the relationship over time as one side of it tends to dominate overtime.

The key to a successful relationship cant do without a sexual portion where both parties engage in sexually enhancing activities. Hear ME!! I'm not encouraging pre marital sex here, but the thing is, if either party is not comfortable with public display of affection aka PDA, it damages the relationship in the long term as suspicion and feelings of neglect creep in. Who doesnt like being told or being showered with love in public? If you don't, then perhaps you should reconsider your position to see if you are really in love with yr partner and proud to have her. Maybe there is this inner feeling within you that is secretly having reservations because you are not sure if you like her.

Guilty? Then maybe its time for you to decide if things are going in the right direction or is there a need for change.

"If you don't change your way of thinking, you will be headed where you are going. A change of direction requires a change of mindset."~Jim Dornan~


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