Mon Night.. Gotham Penthouse to not so happenin SMU Party at Black...
Mon night went clubbin wif the usual jon lionel joe.. Dis added wif Keith, Jason, Lester, Ben, Kelly aka Lionel's Gf n XiaoPing aka Ben's GF. Shihui, Wei Zhong, Johan joined me bout 12am aft dat.. Bumped into Classmate Charmaine, Lotte n Lotte's Duplicate known as Maine. Interestin enough, the only time I always seem to bump into lotte the past few mths has been in clubs. Kinda disappointed wif her cos we nv seem to b able to meet up, cos she's "Busy" and always meet her in clubs. Which so not the way to catch up.. Kept me wonderin the whole time, haven we been pretty close before A levels?? Wif me helpin her wif her work or was it simply becos I had "Value" cos my grades wun dat bad.. N aft As it seems there ain no need to keep in contact anymore?? Perhaps not everyone values Frenship as much I guess..
Was readin dis book called "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.. Extremely good book which has alot of learnin values in it.. Teaches bout how to make pple like u.. There he highlights 6 principles.
Principle 1, Become genuinely interested in pple.. Many times the other reason y pple listen is hopin to wait for their turn so they can tell pple bout themselves n boost their own ego of feelin important. N wat goes in goes out bout wat pl say.. Guys... Girls hate dat!! Means u r hearin not listening!!!!
Principle 2, Smile.. Not crazily smilin the whole time idiot!! Which many guys sometimes over do n end up lookin like a clown..
Principle 3,Rmbr dat a person's name is to dat person the sweetest n most important sound in any language. Stop callin her honey or babe!! Actin all cosy wif somebody u r not close enough to dat level.. Try usin her name instead, devastatin effects..
Principle 4, Be a good listener encourage others to talk bout themselves. Tried it n its became a habit. Its really interestin how pple open up to u when u make an effort to seriously be concerned bout their well bein.
Principle 5, Talk in terms of the other person's interest. Tink bout it.
Principle 6, Make the other person feel important n b sincere bout it. Famous Case. tink pink cadillacs.. Ring a bell? Mary Kay, the famous business woman who imagines the sign "Make me feel the most important" on everyone.. Incredible hospitality..
All mentioned above is not to make u appear superficial or wat..
Rather i tink its a good idea to use them as guidin principle n educate yrself bout it n work towards it.. "We are what we repeatedly do, excellence then is not an act but a habit" -Aristotle-
Was readin dis book called "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie.. Extremely good book which has alot of learnin values in it.. Teaches bout how to make pple like u.. There he highlights 6 principles.
Principle 1, Become genuinely interested in pple.. Many times the other reason y pple listen is hopin to wait for their turn so they can tell pple bout themselves n boost their own ego of feelin important. N wat goes in goes out bout wat pl say.. Guys... Girls hate dat!! Means u r hearin not listening!!!!
Principle 2, Smile.. Not crazily smilin the whole time idiot!! Which many guys sometimes over do n end up lookin like a clown..
Principle 3,Rmbr dat a person's name is to dat person the sweetest n most important sound in any language. Stop callin her honey or babe!! Actin all cosy wif somebody u r not close enough to dat level.. Try usin her name instead, devastatin effects..
Principle 4, Be a good listener encourage others to talk bout themselves. Tried it n its became a habit. Its really interestin how pple open up to u when u make an effort to seriously be concerned bout their well bein.
Principle 5, Talk in terms of the other person's interest. Tink bout it.
Principle 6, Make the other person feel important n b sincere bout it. Famous Case. tink pink cadillacs.. Ring a bell? Mary Kay, the famous business woman who imagines the sign "Make me feel the most important" on everyone.. Incredible hospitality..
All mentioned above is not to make u appear superficial or wat..
Rather i tink its a good idea to use them as guidin principle n educate yrself bout it n work towards it.. "We are what we repeatedly do, excellence then is not an act but a habit" -Aristotle-
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