Trial and error or trial and succeed?

Well sometimes,some things happen for a reason..Breakups are meant to give you cause for heartaches and grief..Of which I believe ultimately leads to delayed gratification..Its a test of one's character,to grow from it,learn from it and ultimately to step out of it,to be daring enough to demand that you deserve someone beta and to find someone beta!If your past relationship had brought you mostly heartaches, sadness and roller coaster emotions, it might have killed yr willingness and guts to engage into another relationship when Mr. Potentially Right comes along..

Personally, I feel dat a relationship is a trial and error event which we gotta go thru..Few pple are blessed with the fairy tale of finding their Mr/Mrs Right on the first try..Because like I said, it take practice to be sharper at finding yr other half and knowing exactly wat to expect from them..Its also to pick up skills and character so as to become a more desirable and attractive to yr future partner..Cooping yrself up and insisting in remainin single even when the right one comes along might not be dat gd an idea..Some pple ask.."How would I even know if he's the right one??" Ans: There is no answer to dat because unless you've tried it, you wouldnt know unless u cast yr judgement based on the initial encounters.. I'm not asking pple to juz jump into relationships here and there, but rather to be sure dat u r open to partners who offer a potentially high chance of filling up the missing gap in your life..

Nonetheless, there r pple who hv higher priorities then fallin in love at a certain time..But love is often like a butterfly..the more you chase it, the more it eludes you..When you least expect it, it comes to you..Even if u choose to put yr love life to a halt, if it comes it comes, you gotta learn to embrace it, appreciate it.. Trust me, humans are often seeking companionship and there is nothing more exihilarating then being able to share your joy, sorrows, emotions then yr other half..