Questions are the answers...
Several runnin events have left me ponderin in their wake.. Things that have left me with many queries at a time of emotional chaos..
Questions... Do girls sometimes like playin hard to get?? So that the guy wld learn to appreciate them when he gets them?? Or some girls leavin the guy suitor dangling ard by not givin him a clear answer if she's not interested and instead pulls him ard by tuggin at his heart strings, giving him hope at crucial times??
Wat is this mysterious force that always keep gers tinkin bout their first love even aft they hv been thru a couple of relationships?? To some extent, some of these gers even get back togeda wif their first bf again, only to break up again aft the supposedly magical feelin din seem to b there anymore.. Well, I've spoke to a few ppl bout it.. N the conclusion i came up wif is dis.. Esp for girls, who are the more emotionally appreciative gender, when they first fall in love.. They are overwhlemed wif all the positive and happy emotions gushin into their body all at one go.. When they see their first bf, it reignites these wonderful emotions of bein in love again everytime they see him.. during their r/s phase.. N it becomes like a mental anchorage of happinesses when they see dat guy.. Cos everytime they see him, they feel happy.. the body recognizes this phenomenon n anchors association of happy feelings to b triggered everytime it sees the guy.. Hence, even aft the breakup, seein the guy again automatically triggers this emotion leavin some gers to be stuck wif the false feelin that they are still in love wif dat guy.. Only aft gettin back togeda again do they realise its not wat they expected or wat they wan.. Go read "Unlimited Power" by Anthony Robbins.
"Love is not automatic. It takes conscious practice and awareness, just like playing the piano or golf. However, you have ample opportunities to practice. Everyone you meet can be your practice session. ~Hari~
Questions... Do girls sometimes like playin hard to get?? So that the guy wld learn to appreciate them when he gets them?? Or some girls leavin the guy suitor dangling ard by not givin him a clear answer if she's not interested and instead pulls him ard by tuggin at his heart strings, giving him hope at crucial times??
Wat is this mysterious force that always keep gers tinkin bout their first love even aft they hv been thru a couple of relationships?? To some extent, some of these gers even get back togeda wif their first bf again, only to break up again aft the supposedly magical feelin din seem to b there anymore.. Well, I've spoke to a few ppl bout it.. N the conclusion i came up wif is dis.. Esp for girls, who are the more emotionally appreciative gender, when they first fall in love.. They are overwhlemed wif all the positive and happy emotions gushin into their body all at one go.. When they see their first bf, it reignites these wonderful emotions of bein in love again everytime they see him.. during their r/s phase.. N it becomes like a mental anchorage of happinesses when they see dat guy.. Cos everytime they see him, they feel happy.. the body recognizes this phenomenon n anchors association of happy feelings to b triggered everytime it sees the guy.. Hence, even aft the breakup, seein the guy again automatically triggers this emotion leavin some gers to be stuck wif the false feelin that they are still in love wif dat guy.. Only aft gettin back togeda again do they realise its not wat they expected or wat they wan.. Go read "Unlimited Power" by Anthony Robbins.
"Love is not automatic. It takes conscious practice and awareness, just like playing the piano or golf. However, you have ample opportunities to practice. Everyone you meet can be your practice session. ~Hari~
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