Is HE the one for you??

I believe many people have encountered instances when u fall in love wif a counterpart and it apppears you are the only one who seems to see the positives in the person while everyone else rejects him or allowing you to even harbouring the idea of being wif the person. General reaction?? Persistence in continuing what you tink you want before usually giving up ultimately. Cos usually the ger would say to herself, "Well, at the end of the day, its me who would be wif him, not anyone else, so why should I care wat other pple tink?" This self-convincing effort normally does not last beyond the time when the ger grows weary and tired of resisting and gives in to all the relentless verbal attacks by those around her and choose to give up.

I personally believe all these things happening can only boil down to attitude. Let's face it, beyond the possiblity of you being plainly blinded by love failing to see all the possible flaws in the person and the likelihood of the relationship taking a freefall in the near future, you can only if you tink u can. Success in love is a state of mind. If you want success in love, start thinking that you will be successful in love. We can always choose to be optimistic about a particular relationship or to be pessimistic. "The optimist is right, so is the pessimistic." How positive an image a person portrays sometimes boils down to how other people choose to look at him in the first place. For eg. Some parents don't even know their kid's counterpart and have already started objecting without even getting to know him in the first place!! Plain ignorance or unreasonable? Both. How can they ever expect their kids to respect such a behaviour especially coming from people whom have grown to become role models in the eyes of their offsprings? Point is, they have chosen to see all the possible negatives that will come from the relationship, instead of the positives their kids are seeing from the relationship. Love is Blind? Absolutely.

See the power of attitude? Whether he is the right one for you all depends on you. How you choose to evaluate his suitability in the future especially when this magic aura of "Love is blind" wears off along with the passion where we start to see the downside of our "PERFECT ONE". Nonetheless, long lasting relationships depends on the attitude both parties adopt, never never never give up. Until you've decided you gave the relationship enough chances to prove itself.

Note: Which sometimes explains why some girls are just plain stupid to stick to relationships which are obviously not going anywhere. Its a joke whenever I see these girls entangled in their own love web, not knowing what to do yet giving advice to other girls in love trouble, particularly when they themselves are not doing what they preach. Blind leading the blind. "Talk is cheap."

"What this power is I cannot say; all I know is that it exists and it becomes available only when a man is in that state of mind in which he knows exactly what he wants and is fully determined not to quit until he finds it." ~Alexander Graham Bell~ (Inventor of the first telephone in the world)