Is it the REAL you??
Was talking about how people have multiple personalities..I'm not referring to split personality disorder, but rather it being human nature that we often put up different masks when we are with different people facing different scenarios and circumstances..Different occasions calls for different behaviour to be part of the social norm.
"When in Rome, speak and do like the Romans do."
More often than not, we are always asking ourselves if the latest "crazy" thing you just did was YOU. Question is, do you really know who you really are?? Like in any other case, your other half whom you are dating, is it the real them?? Just like I said previously, we can strive and learn to behave like someone whom we see as a role model..It's not being fake or putting up the best oscar performance you know, but about character development and improving as a person.
True, sometimes you might wonder if your other half's occasional irrational behaviour warrants a belief that their "REAL" character might be fundamentally unpleasant based on their occasional outbursts of temper or stupidity. Alternatively, being all nice to all his friends, parents, basically everyone else except YOU!!! A possible scenario could also be he being all nasty to everyone else, but being all sweet and lovely to you..Getting you worried the whole day if he might turn out being nasty to you once he decides you are not the one for him or stops loving you..
Bottomline why I'm sayin this is, there is absolutely no worries about trying to find out who you are exactly. Ultimately, humans are always adatping to the latest changing conditions, and changing in prioritization of principles based on the situation. Perhaps you can find out vaguely who you really are, but you will never find out who you exactly are, because just like the environment, we are constantly changing too. Emotionally, physically, mentally..
Book recommendation. "Personality Plus" by Florence Lithauer.
Seriously, go get this book if you are really serious about finding out mroe about yourself and understanding why those around you behave the way they behave. Good luck.
"When in Rome, speak and do like the Romans do."
More often than not, we are always asking ourselves if the latest "crazy" thing you just did was YOU. Question is, do you really know who you really are?? Like in any other case, your other half whom you are dating, is it the real them?? Just like I said previously, we can strive and learn to behave like someone whom we see as a role model..It's not being fake or putting up the best oscar performance you know, but about character development and improving as a person.
True, sometimes you might wonder if your other half's occasional irrational behaviour warrants a belief that their "REAL" character might be fundamentally unpleasant based on their occasional outbursts of temper or stupidity. Alternatively, being all nice to all his friends, parents, basically everyone else except YOU!!! A possible scenario could also be he being all nasty to everyone else, but being all sweet and lovely to you..Getting you worried the whole day if he might turn out being nasty to you once he decides you are not the one for him or stops loving you..
Bottomline why I'm sayin this is, there is absolutely no worries about trying to find out who you are exactly. Ultimately, humans are always adatping to the latest changing conditions, and changing in prioritization of principles based on the situation. Perhaps you can find out vaguely who you really are, but you will never find out who you exactly are, because just like the environment, we are constantly changing too. Emotionally, physically, mentally..
Book recommendation. "Personality Plus" by Florence Lithauer.
Seriously, go get this book if you are really serious about finding out mroe about yourself and understanding why those around you behave the way they behave. Good luck.
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