My thoughts on Love Relationships in this blog..Call it a Love Radio Blog if you want..: Exam Stress that gets couples going? Or just tension that gets them grooving?

Tuesday, November 08, 2005

Exam Stress that gets couples going? Or just tension that gets them grooving?

Met one of my specialists who came back to get his pink IC, aka highest rank in the whole place, Civilian. Mentioned to me that he has gotten together with this ger dat he likes, after her exam and had thanked me for offering invaluable advice with regards to exams tension..

A couple of months back, there was already brewing tension between him and the ger..With her exams coming this month..His original intention was to wait til her exams before asking her for her "hand in marriage". Yet he did it just before her exams. Why so? He decided to follow my opinions with regards to exams stress. What this magical force is I don't know, how it makes sense I don't know either.However, what i do know is, many couples tend to get together just before exams, which is actually the worst time to get together because you should be focusing on your exams??

In my opinion, it is actually the best time to come together. Well, it allows both parties to save time and effort quelling and coping with the obvious sexual tension brewing between them. Getting together solves one aspect of the distraction becos they can put it to one side and focus more on their studies. Some pple might beg to differ as they tink the couple might end up spending more time being lovey dovey and all. Yes, being lovey dovey for a new couple is unavoidable, but the onus of having the discipline in managing their own time falls on the couple.

With regards to why exams stress gets the love cupid going is mainly down to human nature. Haven you realised that humans are hardly ever lone rangers or living in solitude? Mostly all of us yearn to be in good company, to have a good laugh or a crying shoulder. During this exam period where we are all living in a discomfort zone, we tend to seek company more than ever. "Ever wondered why a majority of people study in groups??". Hence, to me, to boost your rate of success depends on how you are able to manage the timing of popping the right question at the right time.

Some critics might tink that if a couple is meant to be together, they will be if they really like each other. Thats plain bulls***. Our fate lies in our own hands, we are the ones who actually make it happen. Success is never based on inaction. You want it to happen? YOU make it happen.

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
~Theodore Roosevelt~

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