Hang on or drag on???

Those of you who are in a relationship now, put your hands up!! Those of you who have been in a relationship with the same partner keep your hands up!! Those who are still crazy and madly in love, hands remain up!! Now..How many people do you think still have the hands up??

The point I'm trying to bring across is..How many relationships nowadays still remain hot and passionate after a long period of time?? I'm not referring to marriage as it is a life long commitment..No affairs allowed, no flirting allowed.. But in a BGR, where the only commitment agreed upon remains in the hearts of 2 people, many a time, we tend to linger along the limits of the "terms" of a relationship. For example, do you believe that we can fall deeply for more than 1 person at the same time? Even if you have a gf/bf..

I've heard of many cases of relationships whereby the only reason why the ger still stays with the guy is because she doesnt wanna break his heart even though she doesnt like him anymore..There have been things like.."Oh, he treats me really nice.." "Oh, he's a really nice guy..." "Oh, he's going through a rough patch in life and cant take another blow.." "Hmmm..I know I shouldnt drag it any longer, but i cant help it.." Don't all these reasons (excuses) sound sssssooooo familiar??

Well, I guess if you belong to such a category, you should take a second look at yourself and make a decision..To hang on or drag on? A decision to see if you wanna try your best to salvage the relationship and fall in love with him again..Or, let it drag and drag and cause endless turmoil and torture to your own life..Is it a waste of your own time and a waste of both your youth? That you decide..

Remember, time waits for no one..Our happiness ultimately lies in our own hands..