How romantic is your relationship?
Girl A: My relationship is not romantic at all...
Girl B: Oh,why is that so? You mean he doesn't do anything romantic for you?
Girl A: Yeah, after the first month our relationship, the romance just died down..
Girl B: OMG, do you mean no more gifts, no more surprises, no more sweet nothings?
Girl A: Exactly!!! Furthermore, ............. and .......
(Possible Conversation between 2 close girl friends talking about their relationship.)
Honestly, let's face it..How common do you think such a conversation happens between girls? Or anything that bears similarity? I bet it has happened to you before hasnt it?
It has always puzzled me about what it really means for a relationship to be considered romantic..Does the guy have to be always popping our surprises? Getting visually pleasing things for the girl? Whispering mushy words to her? Or simply anything creative that blows her mind off because she never did expect it? Something that is full of thought and effort?
Is there a specific set of rules guys actually have to follow, a set of things that they should do to be considered romantic? Especially have done something that allows the girl to narrate to her friends with pride when they ask, "What's the most romantic thing he has ever done for you?" In other words, it appears that a romantic relationship is based upon what romantic stuff the guy has done for the girl or the many little gestures that he does to portray his love for her.
The BIG QUESTION that lies ahead is, is the romance of a relationship determined by what the guy does for the relationship? Or does the girl play an important part as well?? It certainly takes two hands to clap for a relationship to work..Perhaps, girls should start asking themselves, what is the most romantic thing SHE has ever done for him. For if your guy can answer that question, then kudos to you, for you have shown that being in a relationship ain about receiving all the time. My message is that how romantic a relationship isnt determined by the guy at all, the girl plays a huge part as well. So girls, please do your part for the relationship and you will come out of it feeling much more satisfied.
Well, my advice to all guys out there, if you have been in your relationship long enough, and yes i consider a year or more to be long, please do ensure that your girl ain left stumped when she is asked that question about the most romantic thing you have ever done for her. If that happens, I would consider it to be pretty miserable for her.
"Give and you shall receive."~Anonymous~
Girl B: Oh,why is that so? You mean he doesn't do anything romantic for you?
Girl A: Yeah, after the first month our relationship, the romance just died down..
Girl B: OMG, do you mean no more gifts, no more surprises, no more sweet nothings?
Girl A: Exactly!!! Furthermore, ............. and .......
(Possible Conversation between 2 close girl friends talking about their relationship.)
Honestly, let's face it..How common do you think such a conversation happens between girls? Or anything that bears similarity? I bet it has happened to you before hasnt it?
It has always puzzled me about what it really means for a relationship to be considered romantic..Does the guy have to be always popping our surprises? Getting visually pleasing things for the girl? Whispering mushy words to her? Or simply anything creative that blows her mind off because she never did expect it? Something that is full of thought and effort?
Is there a specific set of rules guys actually have to follow, a set of things that they should do to be considered romantic? Especially have done something that allows the girl to narrate to her friends with pride when they ask, "What's the most romantic thing he has ever done for you?" In other words, it appears that a romantic relationship is based upon what romantic stuff the guy has done for the girl or the many little gestures that he does to portray his love for her.
The BIG QUESTION that lies ahead is, is the romance of a relationship determined by what the guy does for the relationship? Or does the girl play an important part as well?? It certainly takes two hands to clap for a relationship to work..Perhaps, girls should start asking themselves, what is the most romantic thing SHE has ever done for him. For if your guy can answer that question, then kudos to you, for you have shown that being in a relationship ain about receiving all the time. My message is that how romantic a relationship isnt determined by the guy at all, the girl plays a huge part as well. So girls, please do your part for the relationship and you will come out of it feeling much more satisfied.
Well, my advice to all guys out there, if you have been in your relationship long enough, and yes i consider a year or more to be long, please do ensure that your girl ain left stumped when she is asked that question about the most romantic thing you have ever done for her. If that happens, I would consider it to be pretty miserable for her.
"Give and you shall receive."~Anonymous~
posted by Edmund at 12:19 AM
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