Masculine with Feminism Appeal

Walked down the streets and seen a guy who seem to ooze masculine appeal, yet the girls don't seem to be impressed? Or how some girls can be seen as gorgeous by her fellow females, but yet to the guys, she doesnt seem to be anymore than above average? Arguments about whether a girl seen on the streets is pretty is commonly debated between a guy n a girl. Yet interestingly enough, girls often agreed on another girl's good looks, while guys have their own take on the same girl. Is this a case of feminism oozing guy appeal?

I often used to wonder, why is it that there is this guy whom is talked about with fanfare by the girls, but yet in the eyes of the guys, he's nothing more than just a pretty face, or even average looking. While there are guys whom are looked upon secretly with envy and respect by other guys for their charisma and good looks, with the girls thinking otherwise. I figured its probably guys and girls are attracted to slightly different things, and people I have asked have mostly agreed upon that.

What is this factor we probably wouldn't know, but perhaps can be found within guys or girls who appeal to both genders. From a guy's point of view I can figure what attracts me, as from a girl's point of view, I can't quite know. Take a girl more example, guys are usually unconsciously attracted to slutty girls mostly for the fact that they fantasize about having a wild one night stand with them. For most reasons, its the unexplainable sexual appeal these girls have on guys. Well of cos, there are guys who are put off by them, but that's the minority and it is usually a love hate relationship we have with these girls. Either we love them or we hate them. As for guys oozing masculine appeal, other guys look up to them as they secretly seek to emulate them, both physically and intellectually. Or for unexplainable reasons, these guys are simply charming in the eyes of other guys. Interestingly enough, this develops scenarios where the guy admires this alpha male, while the girl thinks there's nothing really special that draws her towards that guy.

I believe that was why the term X factor was created. To help us explain humans' unpredictable emotional behavior. Something for us to use as a reason why an individual attracts us while another with better looks, better brain, better everything, fails to. Yes, the less logical part of us at work. That I can’t quite figure out..

"It matters more what's in a woman's face than what's on it." ~Claudette Colbert, quoted in Kindling the Spirit by Lois P. Frankel~