My thoughts on Love Relationships in this blog..Call it a Love Radio Blog if you want..: Close Girl Friends are ok, Close Guy Friends are not?

Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Close Girl Friends are ok, Close Guy Friends are not?

Yes, back to business. Let's face the truth, have you never ever gotten jealous of the over zealous guy friends your other halves have? What “Measures” have you then undertaken to ensure you maintain “sovereignty” over your other half? Set an embargo on her guy friends, ensuring that even the close ones now become mere acquaintances to her? Is it then right to be overbearing and dominant to the extent that her male circle of friends drops from an impressive number of 100 to a single male population of 1? You.

I think it is important to distinguish close guy friends from the rest of the population possibly trying to get a piece of her IN your wildest imaginations. As soon as you understand the way girls think, I hope you would be able to set your mind at ease.

The Chasing Game works like this.

First Stage: Girl knows someone from the opposite sex.
Second Stage: Girl proceeds to know more about him.
Third Stage: Girl becomes friends with the guy.
Fourth Stage: Key turning point in the relationship. Girl makes an evaluation on whether both of them remain as friends and become closer friends, or decides that he could be a potential partner.
Fifth Stage: Things settle down. The girl sticks by her decision, because she can no longer see this close guy friend as a potential partner. (Assumption: She no longer carries a secret liking for the guy after she decides to be good friends with him.)

Rest assured, these close guy friends she has are going to remain that way. There is absolutely no threat because even if they wanted something more, more likely than not, your girl is only going to want things to remain they way it was. The way things used to be, the way they like that is in their comfort zone,the heavy inertia. Those of you out there who are still feeling insecure about the threat from her close guy friends, I urge you to quit feeling or acting in this manner. Because it only serves to emphasis your insecurity which would only put her off. At the end of the day, you are more likely to lose the very thing you were trying to protect in the first place. Protection is good, as long as it is in the right manner. Freedom to her demonstrates your self confidence which raises your attractiveness. Respect her freedom and she will love you for that.

"One important key to success is self-confidence." ~Arthur Ashe~

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