The Umbrella and Bicycle Story

The weather for the past few days has been relatively wet, getting a fair bit of rain. I had to get to a far corner of my camp to settle some stuff with a heavy book in hand..Looking up into the sky, the dark clouds seemed to be gathering in preparation for yet another downpour. It was now between a choice of taking the bicycle, getting there and back in double quick time, saving invaluable time or pickin out the slower and more treacherous route of cutting across the grassy fields with an umbrella in hand in case it rains anytime during my trip there and back.

Well, if you realise, I would not be able to protect myself from the rain and could possibly be trapped in the far corner of my camp if it rains anytime while I'm riding since I cant possibly be holding an umbrella and a heavy book while I'm riding can I? =)

Tough decision making ain it? While, many times in life we are often faced with such a dilemma..And time does not stop running while you are trying to seek out the best option to take up. Ever met a guy who sweeps you off your feet and he gives you the most comfortable and exciting feeling everytime you are with him?? Yet, you know that from his relationship backgrounds that he is one who cant commit to long relationships.. Next came along a guy who has all the qualities and character of a good husband. Somebody you know will be viewed with approbation by your parents and peers. Good looks and a sharp brain further goes to reinforce the idea. Nice to hang out with, but deep in your heart you know that it is the former who really gives you the feeling of being in love.

Secretly hoping to explore the possiblity of being the special one who's able to keep his heart tightly locked up with you..While you are deciding, time keeps running, both of these two highly desirable are constantly attracting many other female suitors, yet they only have eyes for you.. However, over time as more attractive female suitors come along, both of them might change their mind before you decide..What will you do? What will you do??

We are still masters of our fate.We are still captains of out souls.
~Winston Churchill~

Exam Stress that gets couples going? Or just tension that gets them grooving?

Met one of my specialists who came back to get his pink IC, aka highest rank in the whole place, Civilian. Mentioned to me that he has gotten together with this ger dat he likes, after her exam and had thanked me for offering invaluable advice with regards to exams tension..

A couple of months back, there was already brewing tension between him and the ger..With her exams coming this month..His original intention was to wait til her exams before asking her for her "hand in marriage". Yet he did it just before her exams. Why so? He decided to follow my opinions with regards to exams stress. What this magical force is I don't know, how it makes sense I don't know either.However, what i do know is, many couples tend to get together just before exams, which is actually the worst time to get together because you should be focusing on your exams??

In my opinion, it is actually the best time to come together. Well, it allows both parties to save time and effort quelling and coping with the obvious sexual tension brewing between them. Getting together solves one aspect of the distraction becos they can put it to one side and focus more on their studies. Some pple might beg to differ as they tink the couple might end up spending more time being lovey dovey and all. Yes, being lovey dovey for a new couple is unavoidable, but the onus of having the discipline in managing their own time falls on the couple.

With regards to why exams stress gets the love cupid going is mainly down to human nature. Haven you realised that humans are hardly ever lone rangers or living in solitude? Mostly all of us yearn to be in good company, to have a good laugh or a crying shoulder. During this exam period where we are all living in a discomfort zone, we tend to seek company more than ever. "Ever wondered why a majority of people study in groups??". Hence, to me, to boost your rate of success depends on how you are able to manage the timing of popping the right question at the right time.

Some critics might tink that if a couple is meant to be together, they will be if they really like each other. Thats plain bulls***. Our fate lies in our own hands, we are the ones who actually make it happen. Success is never based on inaction. You want it to happen? YOU make it happen.

It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.
~Theodore Roosevelt~